I'm not dating anyone - never have - and don't know anyone I'd date, but I do know a thing or two about relationships.
Basically everyone's come to the same conclusion: there's no set "right" time for every couple. Everyone's different, and everyone has different needs.
Personally, I have NO idea when I think I'll be ready to marry whoever I end up dating. That's not something I can know ahead of time. I know that I don't need to live with them. I don't need to date them for a certain amount of time before I'm open for marriage. When it's time, I'll just know.
However I do NOT want to date for a long time...no way I'm dating someone for years and years before we get married.
I'll share my parents' story here, cause it's so unusual but a good example. My dad had his eye on my mom for a while (a year, I think)until he could tell what kind of woman she really was (my dad's a surprisingly good judge of character; he's very discerning). Finally he approached her and asked to date her. She had only seen him around in church and such; she hardly knew him! But she felt like it was right, so she said yes.
Two weeks they dated, and they just knew! He proposed after only that short amount of time, and she said yes!
They've been married 27 years, never been unfaithful, never been separated, never had a fight (yes, they argue, but they're calm about it and who
doesn't?), raised me and my brothers well, and they're the best parents I could ever ask for.
So. There's an example: everyone's different, and there's not set time for couples to get engaged! Just take it at your own pace, don't rush into anything, and talk it over. And do NOT be afraid to say no if you're not ready!!