Ok thanks for the advice, I was thinking of getting just lolita so no pervy short uniforms xD though I do like maid costumes... plus I'm 5'5 and so would probably come up short! I'm from England too so hopefully the shipping wouldn't be too long and so far I haven't seen any shoes that I really like, where can you get good lolita shoes that aren't really expensive?
But I'm tempted to get those first shoe's you recommended Zeruda, in red if they have my size! Or maybe white, or brown... 
I'm think of getting this dress in purple
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct2.asp?id=6338&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_4&noSubType=N or is the jumper skirt version better?
Maybe this dress in black...
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct2.asp?id=6227&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_7&noSubType=N
This jumper skirt http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct2.asp?id=6695&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_4&noSubType=N
This jumper skirt in brown
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct2.asp?id=5435&pageNumber=2&pageStop=stop_7&noSubType=N
This skirt in pink
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct2.asp?id=6215&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_8&noSubType=N
Maybe this skirt in black
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct2.asp?id=6701&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_5&noSubType=N
This blouse in white and maybe a black one
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showAll.asp?type=lolita
These headbands
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct3.asp?id=6403&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_4&noSubType=N
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct3.asp?id=6405&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_4&noSubType=N
This comb for gothic lolita
http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct3.asp?id=6240&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_2&noSubType=N