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It's a question about sex?
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Nov 27 2011, 12:19 am - by LolitaButterfly


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What do you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend is too sexual?

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Nov 27 2011, 1:17 am - Replied by: Eevee


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Talk to them about it.

"Too sexual" is very relative, as is "not sexual enough", your partner isn't a mind reader. Open communication is the key.



Nov 27 2011, 1:45 am - Replied by: LolitaButterfly


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I do talk to him about it~...He is older so he has already had sex.....many times....where as I ahve not, not once had sex, so he is much more sexual than me. And it's a natual behavior of his....He is really touchy feely....

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Nov 27 2011, 2:31 am - Replied by: Eevee


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So he knows you feel it's too much then? Or..?



Nov 27 2011, 3:42 am - Replied by: Zeruda


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For some reson I think it's very hard to do something about this kind of behavior. For some people it seems to come very natural. I find almost evey boy to be too touchy and to eager to want sex all the time.  I don't belive you can talk sense into them :S It's worth to try to ask him to just STOP, but i find it hard to belive he would actually be able to do it. Since he has more expericence than you he probably expect the world to evolve around him. I find it sad he doesn't respect you when he knows your still a vigin and want to remain that. Maybe you should find a guy on your level? Because i know even if you did do it with him, he still wants more. Guys just never get enough sex and this interest of his will probably not fade.

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Nov 27 2011, 5:03 am - Replied by: Luna_Rain


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If you have not told your boyfriend it is too much then you need to tell him. Explain what you don't feel comfortable with. If your boyfriend truely loves you, then he will understand. You should never do something like have sex if you are not ready.

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Nov 27 2011, 11:56 am - Replied by: RozeMaiden


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Yes, why not just tell your boyfriend that you don't like him being touchy-feely all the time and that it makes you uncomfortable. If he respects you as a person, he'll stop. If not....then I think you need a new boyfriend.

Nov 27 2011, 2:57 pm - Replied by: LolitaButterfly


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I have told him, and he does stop, but then he starts again. I tell him to cool down and he does, but starts all over again we get cuddly! AH!

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Nov 27 2011, 10:01 pm - Replied by: Viochan


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Tell him it makes you uncomfortable and you don't want to move so quickly into sex. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to. If he can't respect that then it's better to find someone who isn't always looking to get in bed with you.

 Although, I would first tell him about what makes you feel uncomfortable and set some-sort of boundary; Maybe he's just trying to connect with you and this is the most affective way he knows how since he's done so previously. It's hard to give too much advice with so little context... Sorry if this isn't coming across too clearly. :S

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Nov 28 2011, 1:47 pm - Replied by: butterflyranmao


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I tell my bf straight up NO and if he wont leave me alone I give him the silience *-*

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Nov 28 2011, 1:59 pm - Replied by: collapsing_cake


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butterflyranmao wrote:

I tell my bf straight up NO and if he wont leave me alone I give him the silience *-*

Haha yes ! Me too ! I've had guys do this to me, at first I just keep moving away and if they don't stop I tell them very bluntly to stop doing it, and if they don't I have to break up with them because I don't understand why they think they can do what they like. Even my favorite person in the world Thought I was an object.

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