Like, we don't have any contact anymore.

She's in a different state now, but she still haunts my mind.

That whole thing was a disaster, and I really want to forget it, but it's incredibly hard.

Any advice?

Write a diary/song/poem about it, let it out creativly. It's something that helps me. Other than that just have to feel bad for a while and afterwards you will feel like a more mature person ^^

I'm sorry but I don't have any great advice for you. Although, I'm am going through these emotions as well, right now and I know how hard it is. Of course I don't know how you feel but from what you described, you could might as well have looked inside my mind. Even though I have no idea what really works, I feel like the best thing to do is just keeping yourself busy with things. Do fun stuff and hang out with friends or other people that you care about. It's so hard, not to think about that person when you're alone.

I find that it helps me to throw myself headfirst into a very time (and thought) consuming project or activity. Get out with new friends, take up a hobby, learn a language, something you can completely immerse yourself in.

After I got out of an abusive relationship, I wanted to forget all about my ex. I threw myself into completely redecorating my bedroom. It was a lot of fun, took up a lot of time, and afterwards being in my new room made me feel like a brand new person and I was able to put that time behind me.

i belive unsaid and undone things can haunt you for the rest of your life... :/ The only way to be free is to solve it by say and do what's on your heart and mind. 

To forget is so difficult.. I find it easier to just replace the lost person with a new one. It works for me.

What Zeruda said, except for replacing the lost person with a new. I tried, it didn't work out at all. Can't forget. Although, I don't want to, either, haha.

I ain't got not good advice, I suck at these kind of things. I'm emotionally handicapped.

Thanks, guys...I hope some of this helps.

I've tried pretty much everything, it's been over two years since I met her now...ffffuuuuu....

Yesterday, I sent her one final message, and now I guess I'll try to stay busy, and write some angsty poetry.

I really hope that you can forget about her and that things will feel better! 

Wait, two years ago? Since you met her for the first time or since you met her last (sorry, I'm slow ^^')? 

I was just asking beacause, as I was saying, I'm going through something like that. It's been 3 or 4 weeks since I met her now..or since it all ended.. And I think that is way too long! But two years.. 

i guess im going through the same thing. keep yourself VERY BUSY, and try to have as little "dull time" as possible as of that is when thoughts of the person start to creep into your mind. thor yourself into work(though that might stress you) or a hobby. also doctors say exersizing helps get rid of sadness *insert complex explenation about your brain releasing chemicals that i cant remember here*

Crusse wrote: I really hope that you can forget about her and that things will feel better!  Wait, two years ago? Since you met her for the first time or since you met her last (sorry, I'm slow ^^')?  I was just asking beacause, as I was saying, I'm going through something like that. It's been 3 or 4 weeks since I met her now..or since it all ended.. And I think that is way too long! But two years..

It's been two years since I first met her, a few months since we last spoke.

This literally happened to me a year and a half ago. Time is the best honestly as sad as it is. Throwing yourself into something helps. Having a rock really helps (I got really lucky with fate sending me a rock right when I needed them). I knew the girl for 2 years and then I graduated but we had a BAD fight and it ended violently for us. It was deeply painful but I found a friend and she was and still is my rock for whenever I'm scared or in pain. I hope you find a rock like I did.