ok so im a 17 year old senior and the guy that i like is a 15 yr old freshman...he's also my neighbor so i see him alot. the thing is..i dont know what to do..i dont know if he likes me or not..he talks to me alot and looks at me often even in the hallways during school. why must finding a boyfriend be this hard ;A;

I always is, hahaha. You can´`t ever really confirm a person´s feelings unless you tell them...or they tell you.  If you like him, initiate something....it doesn´t have to be anything wild like saying you like him to his face, but maybe invite him somewhere to hang out (with friends if you want).

That's such a cute story o^.^o!

I think if you doesn't want to declare your felling directly, you can try to make him understand that you're into him by just having a big smille when you see him, tell him some kind words about his look or personnality. You can also let him understand that this is too bad you can see him for doing something,...

In fact you just have to try to by yourself and to express your feelling with your own words.

That works with my fiance, I just flirt with him and he declare by himself 1 month after we met.

Maybe he can be a little intimidate because you're older, so he may need more time to understand he really got a chance with you ^^

i get really flustered when i talk to him because of the major height diffrence. he's well over six feet and im just a mere 5'3". plus i dont want to make the relationship with him really awkward because i asked him to hang out..i actually asked him before and he jus started at me weirdly for 2 minutes. even 10 minutes ago on the bus ride home he sat infront of me and couldnt open my mouth once. >_<

Oh, you tried and really, who cares the ages?! After ten years no one will remember it. You made him think about that, and if he understands you (and loves like you do) why not? 

But there is something that i couldnt understand, do you really love him or just trying to find someone? I am sorry that i asked it like that but, i think its important and you are too focused on others and the details. 

Amelia wrote: Oh, you tried and really, who cares the ages?! After ten years no one will remember it. You made him think about that, and if he understands you (and loves like you do) why not?  But there is something that i couldnt understand, do you really love him or just trying to find someone? I am sorry that i asked it like that but, i think its important and you are too focused on others and the details.

that really made me think for a while..i cant tell as of right now

I think if you are really crazy in love with a person it doesn't matter what sort of boundary is in your way.

Maybe you need to step back and think if your hesitation is really just worrying about ages. Do your other friends have boyfriends? Since you said things were awkward on the bus... are you kinda pressuring someone who is your friend to be more then that cause you feel you need a boyfriend? 

Obviously I don't know anything that's going on and I'm not commenting, just throwing the ideas out to thing about. I know when I was your age I felt really insecure if someone wasn't interested in dating me. ^^'

some of my friends do have boyfriends and it bothers me alot..i always feel like the 3rd wheel.im not really pressuring him but i do drop subtle hints that i find him interesting.

ive actually known him since we were kids but as we got older i went off to middle school while he was still in elementary school then during his middle school years he moved then came back 3 years later..to same house..