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Ok I hope you guys aren't against a girl dating another girl.... Anyway I really like a girl, her name's Nina, we been dating for a week(We are doing very very well!) and this upcoming weekend she might come stay at my house for a week to visit my state! (She lives in hour from me cause she's in another state) Problem is...I don't know what to do! I wanna ask her on a date, but I honestly don't know what to do All my town has is a huge park,(it has a HUGE field) a yogurt place,(it has ice cream and yogurt in different varities) rock climbing place, a tiny mall, and um a Starbucks(she's never been to Starbucks so I might take her there) there isn't much around here but it's comfortable I guess, but I'm not sure what I'll do :< Another problem is my parents(I'm 15 at this moment) don't know we are dating they just think I'm friends with her. My father doesn't mind my choice but I don't wanna tell him till I know when it's right, but my mom....I'm not sure with her....(her morals are high) I just need advice on what I should do and look(It'll be my first date with her!) So I want a good impression I trust you guys will help me in this 
P.S. For her brithday I'm going to buy her 3 types of chyrsanthemums in order I'll give her white, yellow, and red. Each have a different meaning but in a romantic way(I don't want her to have sterotype flowers or the regular red roses!) I'll also make her a chocolate cake as well for her 
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I absolutely LOVE the idea of her birthday present!!! it's lovely and not cliche either  (what are the romantic meanings behind each if you don't mind my asking? )
As for the date, I think she'd be happy wherever you take her to be honest! All of the places you mentioned though offer plenty of portals for a good time and I'm sure that all of them would be absolutely lovely places to have a date Personally I know I'd enjoy visiting all of those places! With your look, something relatively casual but lovely that really reveals your personality! That's what I'd go for  With your parents just take your time. I'm sure they'll both come to understand your choice because at the end of the day you're their daughter I hope this helps you in some way!!!
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KayaValentine wrote:
I absolutely LOVE the idea of her birthday present!!! it's lovely and not cliche either  (what are the romantic meanings behind each if you don't mind my asking? )
As for the date, I think she'd be happy wherever you take her to be honest! All of the places you mentioned though offer plenty of portals for a good time and I'm sure that all of them would be absolutely lovely places to have a date Personally I know I'd enjoy visiting all of those places! With your look, something relatively casual but lovely that really reveals your personality! That's what I'd go for  With your parents just take your time. I'm sure they'll both come to understand your choice because at the end of the day you're their daughter I hope this helps you in some way!!!
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Thank you so much! This helps me build my confidence a lot ^_^ and here's what the flowers mean Red chrysanthemum - I love you. A white chrysanthemum - sincerity. A yellow chrysanthemum - gentle love In order to white, yellow, and then red to show each step 
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Well, I am certainly not against it. I think you guys should talk it out and agree on going someplace. Sometimes, the best dates aren't surprises, especially when it is early on in the relationship. I think that surprises should be saved for later on, when you really know the person and know for a fact that they like what you're going to do for them. (IE my boyfriend wanted to go to Macaroni Grill for a while, and last night I took him as a surprise for our six months.) I suggest the frozen yogurt / ice cream shop, because that is cute, not too pricey, and it's something that both of you can really relax and enjoy. Personally, I love frozen yogurt. <3 
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ChuChuRei wrote:
Well, I am certainly not against it. I think you guys should talk it out and agree on going someplace. Sometimes, the best dates aren't surprises, especially when it is early on in the relationship. I think that surprises should be saved for later on, when you really know the person and know for a fact that they like what you're going to do for them. (IE my boyfriend wanted to go to Macaroni Grill for a while, and last night I took him as a surprise for our six months.) I suggest the frozen yogurt / ice cream shop, because that is cute, not too pricey, and it's something that both of you can really relax and enjoy. Personally, I love frozen yogurt. <3 
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Good idea! I just want her to feel comfortable~ so your suggestion helps a lot and thank you for understanding 
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Feb 16 2012, 12:29 am - Replied by: kitten
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You're only 15 and yet, you already have those kinds of ideas in your head just to show to nina how much you really like her. That's really cute, I hope you two will have fun while she's at your place.
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Feb 16 2012, 1:01 am - Replied by: Evig_
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If you'd been 25, and had your own place I could have set you up with the le perfect date. You'd had her in a little box by the end of the night (not litterally!). But the home situation might prove it a little difficult. Then again, if she likes you, you won't have any problems with whatever you decide to do. I hope your mother accepts your decission, and realises you're still you. <3
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"It's all in my head" I said, banging a piano 'I've not been so alone' I thought, 'since kicking in the womb' I drank so much tea, I wrote my letters in kanji Around the block I walked, and walked, pretending you were with me...
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Feb 16 2012, 1:09 am - Replied by: Do-Chan
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i think you should get some yoghurt and take a walk in the park while eating said yoghurt....or maybe do a picnic?
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Feb 16 2012, 1:15 am - Replied by: Evig_
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Is it warm enough for that? ;_; I thought of that too, but it's effing freezing over here! Maybe it's warmer in the states?
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"It's all in my head" I said, banging a piano 'I've not been so alone' I thought, 'since kicking in the womb' I drank so much tea, I wrote my letters in kanji Around the block I walked, and walked, pretending you were with me...
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Feb 16 2012, 1:21 am - Replied by: Do-Chan
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it should be pretty warm where she is...i'm a few states away and it was rather warm today
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I like the picnic suggestion!
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