have yu ever felt like you were a little 2 desperate 4 a boyfriend or is it just me in my whole shcool life ive only experienced one person 2 b considered a soulmate an now that hes gone because we both were 2 shy 2 make a move hes gonne an ive ben desperate to find my true love im only 16 but i want 2 meet this person now so that we can grow old together rather then find each other at 30 an wait 4 one of us to get a heart attack or something...im just tired of being alone or ending up with the wrong guy.

there is no need to hurry love....you have plenty of time...and even if you have to wait til you are 30 there are still plenty of years after that before you have to worry about losing that person...just slow down and stay a kid.....if you rush it too much or settle you may find that it's not what you actually want...it'll happen but it may just take some time...just enjoy life as much as you can and when the time is right you will find that person...and remember...you have to love yourself before you can love another...i hope this helps

thnkss..all so very true

what she said is so true. I'd just like to add that waitng for something to happen is always much harder because when you wait for something it takes mucb longer.. so yeah, just be young and have fun for the time being and then you'll meet your special person in no time. :p 

And don't feel you need to have a partner because others aroun you do, I know I may feel that way but tbh you dont know if they will last.. being desperate won't get us anywhere.

I was never desparate for a boyfriend in high school. In fact, I didn't actually like boys much, haha. And I figured I had more to worry about, like sorting out my life.

I had a lot of crushes on boys though. There was one that I thought would have been perfect for me, but looking back I realize how silly it all was. A soulmate is someone you connect with on so many levels, the person you feel most like yourself around, it's never awkward and it just feels right. You know that person so well you don't even need words to communicate.

Neveriana, you're young yet so don't worry too much about boyfriends and all that. Chances are, once you get out of high school and look back, you too will realize how silly you felt about most of those boys.