Hm. For me sex just feels so awesome. Can't see why someone would't want to do it. I guess I'm searching for a reason, but there isn't always one haha.

Still though, it sounds like a sexual relationship. Just not a conventional one. Sharing intimacy beyond friendship, that mental stimulation. Very erotic. 

Perhaps I should start using that, erotic or arousal, rather then "sexual" in this context.

It is very hard to understand for a lot of people. Our society is very sex-oriented so anyone who doesn't want it is thought of as really odd or strange or naive. 

The bottom line is that asexual people don't want sex. But they do want love and companionship and a degree of intimacy, just like everyone else. (Well, some of them do. Some asexuals are also aromantic and don't want any of that. They just prefer to be alone or have friends.)

Well, it's life that's sex oriented haha kinda what every living thing is born to do. People are such weird creatures what with the conciousness. 

Interesing for sure.

i'm not asexual but i dont care for sex and i really dont care if i ever have it again....i think it's ok if you dont want to have sex, it's not something that i feel should be important...but that's just me