anyone else having problems with their love life but me??

if you're having love life problems, you should let it out here.
i don't have any love problems but i'm more than happy to come back and try to help you with yours and give some advice :)

i have no problems unless you count the lack of a love life a problem

I have a problem now (and by NOW I mean AGAIN).

Last Feb. 14, my crush returned the valentine card I gave him. I worked so hard on it. I even cried for hours after what he did. See, he's kinda mad at me and I'm not sure why..  [Read my blog for more details] When my friends confronted him after what he did, they told me that he said he isn't mad anymore. He just had no idea what to do with the card. At first I thought he might be embarassed to have it around him. Then I thought for a bit and believed him. 5 days later, I called out to him and said hi. When he saw me, he just looked away.. </3 

It took me lots of courage to say hi to him on chat on facebook. When I finally did, he didn't reply. And whenever my friends ask him why he's mad at me on facebook, he doesn't reply. WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE SO COMPLICATED??!! 

Every time i like a guy or a girl (i'm bi) i end up getting rejected. It sucks and I can't figure out why they reject me. the guy that crush on me are really really weird and I normally avoid them because I tend to get a lot of stalkers (I'm 14 and I'm a D 40 and I'm skinny) so my love is doesn't exist. 

Mitchel_wEy16 wrote: I have a problem now (and by NOW I mean AGAIN). Last Feb. 14, my crush returned the valentine card I gave him. I worked so hard on it. I even cried for hours after what he did. See, he's kinda mad at me and I'm not sure why..  [Read my blog for more details] When my friends confronted him after what he did, they told me that he said he isn't mad anymore. He just had no idea what to do with the card. At first I thought he might be embarassed to have it around him. Then I thought for a bit and believed him. 5 days later, I called out to him and said hi. When he saw me, he just looked away.. </3  It took me lots of courage to say hi to him on chat on facebook. When I finally did, he didn't reply. And whenever my friends ask him why he's mad at me on facebook, he doesn't reply. WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE SO COMPLICATED??!!

Hi girlie. I know its hard to believe it now... But try to trust me on this. I've had crushes in the past who broke my heart, ignored me, never called me back, never wrote back, and threw away cards that I put my heart into.

Then there was this one crush, he threw away my card... I dunno why... But then a few days later asked me out. Of course I was super excited to be with him. For a few months... AND AROUND VALENTINE'S DAY. (Coincidence?) I didn't hear from him. When we went to school, I heard from some of my friends he was hanging out with a girl on VALENTINE'S DAY! HE WAS MY BF STILL! That hurt and he kept saying sorry blah blah blah... Few months later he dumped me. So... what I'm trying to say is. Love is not a one way street. Especially when you're doing all the work for the relationship to work out. If he doesn't put no work into it, he's definitely not worth your love that you give to him. I've learned that through the years.

When he dumped me, I cried and cried... Soon after that, I HAD to pick myself up and promise myself to not give my heart to a guy who isn't worth it. I changed a bit. Grew confident, learned how to apply makeup (youtube!), started making good friends and I forgot about him. Few years later... we saw each other.

Can you guess what happened then? HE WANTED TO BE WITH ME. I dunno if he wanted me because he was lonely and making me rebound or the 'NEW' me. But confident as I was, I said no. Because I knew back then he wasn't worth giving my heart to.

There are many many other guys girlie... I know its tough to forget about a crush but I just wanted to share my experience with you. About a guy who didn't really care about me in the first place (I think he was using me). The choice is up to you if you want to keep crushing on the guy because love does work in mysterious ways...

Take care and good luck!

thanks... that helps alot. I admire how u were able to break urself free from all that... I`ll try that.

You guys are right, thanks... 

I once told myself he's worth someone more valuable than me... But now I realized...

He's not worth even a single tear...

Thanks a lot chibirubie... Really helped...