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Do you belive in love at first sight??
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Hello Everyone :D My name is Monique :) Okay, this is my first Post so i'm kind of nervous...^^' Well, today i'm talking about: Love at first sight. I have been asked this question so many times before, so i decided it's time for a answer... In my opinion, yes!!!! I do beleive in love at first sight. I'm actually very gullible when it comes down to liking someone, which causes me to fall for them very quick.. TT-TT We all have that problem right? Well maybe 50-60% of us do but you get it. We all see that one person either at: school, work, streets, park etc. and it's like BAM!!! he or she is the one. Everyone know how it goes when you see them. Your heart began to race, you get cold feet, your speak start to go slur and your plams start getting sweaty, then when you have the courage to walk up to them all you can probarly say is "Hi...." and walk away. Raise your hand if this have happen to you.. *raises hand up high* This is a true story about me beliveing in love at first sight. It was my first year in high school and I was in love with this guy. He was a second year and I was thinking "This will never work out. He's a second year student and he probalary don't even like first year girls. He's to far out my league." We had lunch together and one of friends decided to go over and ask him a question about me. Nervous and freaking out the bell had rung for 4th hour, which caused me to jump for joy. As walking down the to my class I accidentlly bumped into him and dropped my books. Blushing the whole time while looking down, he stayed quiet. I finally told him I liked him, which made me wanted to dissapper and never come back to school again, he laughed. Looking puzzled and confused he explanined: "I know you are smart, pretty and all but I like someone else right now" Crushed by this he finally gave me explanation I wanted to hear: "We can be friends, if you like." I smiled and nodded. Now me and him are friends but I still have feelings for him until this day. *sighs* But in my book, even if we're not together, he's still mine always in my heart and nothing will never change that feeling no matter what :) We all might have had this experince and we just don't want to admit it yet. The person that we think we love don't be the one we end up dating but they become a good friend at the end of the day. Okay, now it's your turn. Do you belive in love at first sight? Why or Why not? Leave a comment or your experinces about falling for someone the first time. Anyways I will talk to you maybe tomorrow. See ya later :) &nb sp; &nb sp; &nb sp; -xoxo Monique
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Nov 26 2010, 10:31 pm - Replied by: Do-Chan
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not really...i can get a crush at first site but not love that takes a good while for me...been burned too many times
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Do-Chan wrote:
not really...i can get a crush at first site but not love that takes a good while for me...been burned too many times
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man can be mean sometimes :O
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be cute,be crazy,be free
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Nov 26 2010, 11:40 pm - Replied by: Tanaie
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Personally, I don't believe in love at first sight. You can be attracted to someone at first sight, perhaps by there looks or there mannerisms, but how can you truly LOVE someone you just don't know? That's the reason why so many marriages, or relationships break up. Because people rush into things without properly getting to know the person, both there good and bad sides. That's why it's always good to be friends with someone first before you get serious, because you get to really know them for everything they are, and everything there not.
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I believe~ I've been with mine for two years now :D My mother used to refer to us as Romeo and Juliet XD
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Tanaie wrote:
Personally, I don't believe in love at first sight.
You can be attracted to someone at first sight, perhaps by there looks or there mannerisms, but how can you truly LOVE someone you just don't know?
That's the reason why so many marriages, or relationships break up. Because people rush into things without properly getting to know the person, both there good and bad sides. That's why it's always good to be friends with someone first before you get serious, because you get to really know them for everything they are, and everything there not.
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i agree. i've never heard of anyone falling in "love at first sight" with an unattractive person. just saying...that ought to tell you something about the reality of it. there's no way you can know someone by just looking at them. that's their appearance your falling in love with. i think people confuse loving someone with liking someone. there are drastic differences. the way i see it, you don't love someone until you'd be willing to die for them.
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Feb 13 2011, 5:27 pm - Replied by: Nirvelli
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I don't believe in love at first sight at all, I think a rush of physical attraction at first sight is more like it! I remember when I met my ex is was fairy tale perfect, our eyes met across a table, we blushed and looked away... he turned out to be very superficial and the relationship fizzled out after a year. Whereas when I met my fiancee it took me a few days to even notice he existed let alone fancy him and eventually fall in love with him XD He's the most caring, sensitive and wonderful person i've ever met ;)
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Feb 13 2011, 5:32 pm - Replied by: Ayame
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As everyone says, it's most likely something like "Oh my gosh, he's fit/cute/*insertwhateverwordhere*" at first sight. You may think you're in love, but I'm sure love is deeper than just that... I think? Actually, I don't think I've ever been in love before apart from childish crushes
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Smile :) You're beautiful~
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Mar 17 2011, 12:36 am - Replied by: Linnie
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Honestly, no, I don't.. I believe that if you love someone, it's because there's something about them.. I believe in attraction at first sight, but I think it's a bit crazy to fall madly in love because you SEE someone. You have no idea what kind of person they are, or how they'd treat you. They could be abusive, or have many qualities you don't like.. Sure, crushes at first sight.. But love? No, not me. I do admit I had a huge crush on my current boyfriend the first time I met him. But it was his awkwardness that I was attracted to. I met him while he was doing parkour.. I'd never seen anyone jump up a flight of steps before.. He held everything like L from Death Note.. and was so quiet.. I was intrigued. However, my expectations of him? My first impression didn't quite match his true personality. Either way, I adore him. Plus, you only know so much about a person as they tell/show you. Even worse when you've never really gotten to know them on a first meeting. ^.^'
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