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what was your first lovestory?? :))
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hmmm.. share your first love story with our co-fashionistas! :))
we're so sure that your story is so inspirational that it can help other girls to solve their problems about their lovelife!.. let's hear it!..
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Mar 04 2010, 10:55 am - Replied by: sumitan
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Mine's actually kinda long x.x lolz. It actually takes place inside Blimpie's in the Walmart I work in. I was actually friend's with my boyfriend's younger brother before I met him. He was living in West Virgina and was moving down here to help his Dad and 3 brothers cause his Dad was going through a horrible divorce. Well, his brother and I would always talk about anime, video games, movies and what not and when he told me about his brother he said 'I think you'll like him. He likes the exact same things I like'. So I was excited to meet him. So that next week when I saw him I asked him how he was doing, and he was just like 'eh'. So I thought he didn't like me, and it kinda made me a little sad. I was just trying to be friendly cause he was the brother of my friend you know? Well, I ordered my BLT ( and this is important to know ), and went and sat down to eat. I got up and left to go back to work. Anyways, the next day he apologizes to me and I asked him why, and he said 'Because I burnt the bacon on your sandwhich, and what's probably why you didn't say anything when you left'. I was actually kinda shocked, and thought it was super cute. I laughed and told him I didn't notice it was burnt because I inhaled it, lolz. That's actually how we started talking, and to this day I still make fun of him burning my bacon on my sandwhich. We met at the end of December/ beginning of January, started dating on April 16th, and been together ever since. This April 16th will be our 2 year anniversary. And I couldn't be happier <3
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mine is a very..well iono really 0-o. heres my story
Back in 4th grade i had a crush on this guy, and apparently he liked me back. But i was too dense to notice, or for some reason i wouldnt accpet that he liked me. It was very obvious to the class that we liked eachother but yet we never confessed to eachother.
THere were a lot of stuff that happened that made it so obvious that he liked me. When i cried once in class, he woke me up to make sure i was ok. I was a very shy girl but now im very outgoing. Another one was when during class we had to answer questions and we were in groups. each person in a group had a # randomly chosen by dice. I got 1..so i had to answer a question. The guys i liked's friends were bumping him around when i was up, and he even exchanged numbers for him to be #1.
So a lot of stuff happened.
The last day of school was a pool party at one of our classmates's apartment complexes. So i had a best friend. A girl of course. And she knew we liked eachother and she would always try and tell me he liked me but of course i didnt accept it. So one time i tried to scare the guy i liked in the pool (funny how we were the only ones in there..) and we laughed a lil. he moved to the jacuzzi (but i didnt know this) my best friend asked if i wanna go to jacuzzi and so i said sure. I found him and one of our classmates there. The classmate left, and then my best friend left the jacuzzi. So it was just him and i. i got so shy and it was very awkward.. So i told him i went to my best friend.
Then my mom went to pick up my best friend and i. I was outside the gate, and my best friend and my mom were on their way to the car. Then the guy i liked (who was still inside the gate of the pool) ran up to me and said for me to wait so he wud give me something.
THe thing is, it was either to wait for him, or get totally lost in the apartment complex that i didnt live in. ..... So i chose to leave. (IM HELLAAA STUPID)
I never saw him again..till 8 years later and there was never a day that i didnt think about him.
We found eachother on facebook (this was actually only last year for me) and we met up a month after his bday. It was totally awkward but we did confess that we liked eachother back in 4th grade..except i still liked him. erm puppy love?
i had 2 bfs and right now im on a break with one of em..and im waiting for him to come back becuz he said he wud. But today i had a dream about the guy i liked back in 4th grade..except we havent talked for a while..
My life is confusing0-o.
This was my first love story. my friend thinks that i shud still talk to him and be his best friend and everything. Itd be a dream come true if we were to start dating..but right now im waiting on another guy.
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My love story didn't start until after my first relationship ended. While I thought I was in love with my now ex back then, I now realize how wrong for each other we were. I go to school away from home for college and he and I dated for 2years as such perfectly fine (I was only 2 hrs from home). Sadly, about a year ago, he was acting so strange when I got home for the summer. Life went on as normal until I saw he was constantly messaging someone on his phone while we were together (very unusual since he always wanted our phones on silent when together so we focused on our time alone). I eventually found out it was a girl I'd never met before. When I confronted him I first was told she was just a co-worker who was going through a rough time. Then I was told she was just a friend who had recently been dumped by her boyfriend and apparently my boyfriend had to be the one there for her and comfort her. I was upset and we had an argument and shortly after in the week, he dumped me 3 days before my MCAT (medical college 'entrance' exam for a good way to explain for those who don't know about it). Needless to say, I failed thanks to this and for the rest of the summer I felt like a zombie. A great friend of mine was there for me and he supported me throughout the whole thing. I had lost 20 lbs in 2 weeks and was feeling like the world wasn't going to improve. I was wrong, of course, and eventually I got my life back on track by the time my birthday rolled around in August. My ex came to my birthday party and later asked me back out. I said no and knew I never wanted him again. Times weren't fully easy after that but I kept looking forward. As ironic as life is, my friend who was there for me fell in love with me and I with him. He stayed up late at night when I was troubled, studied with me (we are from the same university), and allowed me to live life again. We didn't rush into dating but in January, we started to date. We are almost at our 5 month mark and I couldn't be happier. However, it is not easy all the time. Sadly, he is away in Japan for 4 months of school. It seems like no time at all but I can't tell you enough how we, as people, take for granted the simple things (like hugs) in life. I truly miss him and we stay in contact when we can. The most exciting thing is that I don't have much left without him and I have the blessing of traveling to see him in July! I'm really looking forward to my time with him and hopefully, life with him.  
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that is really cute :3!!! i wish i had that D:! my love life isnt so cute -___-
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sumitan wrote:
Mine's actually kinda long x.x lolz. It actually takes place inside Blimpie's in the Walmart I work in.
I was actually friend's with my boyfriend's younger brother before I met him. He was living in West Virgina and was moving down here to help his Dad and 3 brothers cause his Dad was going through a horrible divorce.
Well, his brother and I would always talk about anime, video games, movies and what not and when he told me about his brother he said 'I think you'll like him. He likes the exact same things I like'. So I was excited to meet him.
So that next week when I saw him I asked him how he was doing, and he was just like 'eh'. So I thought he didn't like me, and it kinda made me a little sad. I was just trying to be friendly cause he was the brother of my friend you know? Well, I ordered my BLT ( and this is important to know ), and went and sat down to eat.
I got up and left to go back to work.
Anyways, the next day he apologizes to me and I asked him why, and he said 'Because I burnt the bacon on your sandwhich, and what's probably why you didn't say anything when you left'. I was actually kinda shocked, and thought it was super cute. I laughed and told him I didn't notice it was burnt because I inhaled it, lolz.
That's actually how we started talking, and to this day I still make fun of him burning my bacon on my sandwhich. We met at the end of December/ beginning of January, started dating on April 16th, and been together ever since. This April 16th will be our 2 year anniversary. And I couldn't be happier <3
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lolz! awwws~ so cute!! all worried about burning your bacon - so sweet =D
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OOOkay - mine's LONG but it's a goodie and I've bee ntold that it is very inspirational so I encourage all to read on!!!
It all started around the time when I got interested in anime (13 years old).My two first ever anime shows I got interested in was Sailor Moon and Gundam Wing. I liked Gundam Wing better. I didn't like the concept of the internet or chatting but I saw my friend online all the time and she said she was 'role-playing'. I asked if I could try to roleplay as my made up gundam character Kate Barton (which was an imaginary gf for the gundam wing character Trowa Barton). She said sure and decided to search for a "Trowa" onyahoo chat for me to role play with.
Sure enough she picked one out of like the thousand there and this is where my love story begins...
Me, my friend, and this "Trowa" got into a personal yahoo chat room.She was doing most of the talking and the most me and Trowa said to each other was 'hi' - 'how are you' etc...after a while my friend left the chat room and there I was with him by myself not knowing what to say! We sat in silence for awhile until we finally managed to start role playing - we didn't know each others real names either. After role playing for a bit - I decided that it was fun and wanted to continue! He didn't seem to mind either. So day after day we role played and I found myself wanting to do it every single hour of the day.
And that's how it was for a couple of months to half a year...
We both got tired of role playing eventually and just started talking like normal people. We learned each others names (his was Will) and talked about our Gundam interests etc..just getting to 'know' each other. Again....this is all I did. I freaking breathed the computer and internet at this point and didn't do any school activities or parties etc etc...
Soon enough after about another half a year (so it had been a year or more since we started talking) we knew each others names, interests, hobbies, and even where we lived. He lived in the midlands in England. I lived in Maryland in the USA. I found that he was born in England but his parents were from Hong Kong....so he is actually chinese! But with a British accent!
But since I lived in the USA and him in England-meeting in person was out of the question at this point. But later on after talking and consulting with him a lot - I started to develop feelings for him.My friends kept telling me off saying "are you done playing around yet?Stop being childish!" "What?! you 'think' you LIKE like him?"but we continued talking online anyway.
Despite all the sour words and negativity from 'friends' while I continued tobe involved with him. I decided to have an online relationship. I was 14 close to going on 15 (2002-2003) We continued to have a bf/gf relationship online. I went to school, came home, talked to him online, then went to bed...and this is the routine I did for 3 years straight every single day. On days I was off school I just simply stayed online just to talk to him and he would stay up till 1am his time every night just to talk to me (that was 8pm USA time -England is 5 hours faster than us). I lived just so I could get on that computer to talk to him.
This went on like I said for about 3 years straight. It evolved into me buying calling cards and actually calling him just to hear his sweet British accent.He would call me too. We would mail each other presents and letters and I would get super excited whenever I got something in the mail from him. Everyone knew of my 'crush' or 'online lover'. Friends say "it'll never work out, your just hurting yourself" "that isn't a REAL boyfriend, why don't you try and get a REAL one?"....my parents would just keep saying "as long as he is over there and you're over here!" lol they though it was harmless, though I did get in trouble for staying on the phone and internet too long.
WELL this is where it got interesting. In 2004 I was 16 and my dad said"Hey, I am going over to England for missionary work for church. I know your 'love' lives over there so if you earn $1000 I will take you with me next year and we can go meet him!"
That right there made my life. I worked like hell doing petty jobs, cleaning toilets, houses, watching pets, baby sitting, ANYTHING to earn that $1000!!!!Sure enough, I earned it and I did go to England. My dad liked him the second he met him. I was so estatic to finally meet him in person! But as you would think I didn't get a hug or a kiss when we met. I got a simple 'hello' and a handshake. But I could tell he was nervous too. After the first day together my dad trusted him to even let us go to a movie together alone. (We saw War of the Worlds) And that was the first time he held my hand =) it was so....blissful ugh I can't even put it in words of how happy I felt.
Well, I was only with him for 3 days before dad dragged me to other places that he wanted to site see at. We got to have a nice Chinese lunch at Will's parents house. My dad adored them. Then Will's dad drove us to the train station. If you expected us to kiss...well we didn't. We just hugged....A LOT and I criedand blew him a kiss as I got onto the train wondering when I would ever see him again.
When I got back home the internet started again...it's all I did and it's all he did. We talked, sent pictures, gifts, etc etc but we WANTED to be together.So a year after I had met him we decided and suddenly he called my house and asked my dad if he could marry me! Of course my dad was ALL for it and I said YES! There was no ring or grand proposal it was just 'Let's get married!"and sure enough in the year 2006 Nov 25th we got married. It was his first time being in the USA. I was 18 years old then.
But that was short lived as he couldn't stay in the USA because even though we got married he still had paperwork to do to stay here permanently. A week after we got married we were separated again. I didn’t see him again until 2007. In the spring and starting summer I couldn’t take it anymore. So he helped pay for my ticket and I went to stay in England for the remaining of the summer with him. He got his K-3 Visa and we arrived back in the USA at the end of 2007 and got a place of our own. He finally got permanent resident status just last year 2009 and is working on his citizenship now. =)We are still happily married and love each other to death. Oh yeah, I do have to mention that during all of this NEITHER him nor I had any previous gfs or bfs – we are each others FIRST for EVERYTHING and ANYTHING you can think of. That is very special to us both. And each time we kiss we both always feel the same way – we are each others one and only and always have been. So I encourage all to NEVER give up no matter what anyone says. If you feel that it's right and ment to be then go for it. If you know that the guy you want and love and truly and utterly committed to your relationship then do not give up. Long-distance relationships CAN work and ANYTHING is possible.
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Jul 12 2010, 1:34 am - Replied by: HoneyPie
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kawaiikittle wrote:
OOOkay - mine's LONG but it's a goodie and I've bee ntold that it is very inspirational so I encourage all to read on!!!
It all started around the time when I got interested in anime (13 years old).My two first ever anime shows I got interested in was Sailor Moon and Gundam Wing. I liked Gundam Wing better. I didn't like the concept of the internet or chatting but I saw my friend online all the time and she said she was 'role-playing'. I asked if I could try to roleplay as my made up gundam character Kate Barton (which was an imaginary gf for the gundam wing character Trowa Barton). She said sure and decided to search for a "Trowa" onyahoo chat for me to role play with.
Sure enough she picked one out of like the thousand there and this is where my love story begins...
Me, my friend, and this "Trowa" got into a personal yahoo chat room.She was doing most of the talking and the most me and Trowa said to each other was 'hi' - 'how are you' etc...after a while my friend left the chat room and there I was with him by myself not knowing what to say! We sat in silence for awhile until we finally managed to start role playing - we didn't know each others real names either. After role playing for a bit - I decided that it was fun and wanted to continue! He didn't seem to mind either. So day after day we role played and I found myself wanting to do it every single hour of the day.
And that's how it was for a couple of months to half a year...
We both got tired of role playing eventually and just started talking like normal people. We learned each others names (his was Will) and talked about our Gundam interests etc..just getting to 'know' each other. Again....this is all I did. I freaking breathed the computer and internet at this point and didn't do any school activities or parties etc etc...
Soon enough after about another half a year (so it had been a year or more since we started talking) we knew each others names, interests, hobbies, and even where we lived. He lived in the midlands in England. I lived in Maryland in the USA. I found that he was born in England but his parents were from Hong Kong....so he is actually chinese! But with a British accent!
But since I lived in the USA and him in England-meeting in person was out of the question at this point. But later on after talking and consulting with him a lot - I started to develop feelings for him.My friends kept telling me off saying "are you done playing around yet?Stop being childish!" "What?! you 'think' you LIKE like him?"but we continued talking online anyway.
Despite all the sour words and negativity from 'friends' while I continued tobe involved with him. I decided to have an online relationship. I was 14 close to going on 15 (2002-2003) We continued to have a bf/gf relationship online. I went to school, came home, talked to him online, then went to bed...and this is the routine I did for 3 years straight every single day. On days I was off school I just simply stayed online just to talk to him and he would stay up till 1am his time every night just to talk to me (that was 8pm USA time -England is 5 hours faster than us). I lived just so I could get on that computer to talk to him.
This went on like I said for about 3 years straight. It evolved into me buying calling cards and actually calling him just to hear his sweet British accent.He would call me too. We would mail each other presents and letters and I would get super excited whenever I got something in the mail from him. Everyone knew of my 'crush' or 'online lover'. Friends say "it'll never work out, your just hurting yourself" "that isn't a REAL boyfriend, why don't you try and get a REAL one?"....my parents would just keep saying "as long as he is over there and you're over here!" lol they though it was harmless, though I did get in trouble for staying on the phone and internet too long.
WELL this is where it got interesting. In 2004 I was 16 and my dad said"Hey, I am going over to England for missionary work for church. I know your 'love' lives over there so if you earn $1000 I will take you with me next year and we can go meet him!"
That right there made my life. I worked like hell doing petty jobs, cleaning toilets, houses, watching pets, baby sitting, ANYTHING to earn that $1000!!!!Sure enough, I earned it and I did go to England. My dad liked him the second he met him. I was so estatic to finally meet him in person! But as you would think I didn't get a hug or a kiss when we met. I got a simple 'hello' and a handshake. But I could tell he was nervous too. After the first day together my dad trusted him to even let us go to a movie together alone. (We saw War of the Worlds) And that was the first time he held my hand =) it was so....blissful ugh I can't even put it in words of how happy I felt.
Well, I was only with him for 3 days before dad dragged me to other places that he wanted to site see at. We got to have a nice Chinese lunch at Will's parents house. My dad adored them. Then Will's dad drove us to the train station. If you expected us to kiss...well we didn't. We just hugged....A LOT and I criedand blew him a kiss as I got onto the train wondering when I would ever see him again.
When I got back home the internet started again...it's all I did and it's all he did. We talked, sent pictures, gifts, etc etc but we WANTED to be together.So a year after I had met him we decided and suddenly he called my house and asked my dad if he could marry me! Of course my dad was ALL for it and I said YES! There was no ring or grand proposal it was just 'Let's get married!"and sure enough in the year 2006 Nov 25th we got married. It was his first time being in the USA. I was 18 years old then.
But that was short lived as he couldn't stay in the USA because even though we got married he still had paperwork to do to stay here permanently. A week after we got married we were separated again. I didn’t see him again until 2007. In the spring and starting summer I couldn’t take it anymore. So he helped pay for my ticket and I went to stay in England for the remaining of the summer with him. He got his K-3 Visa and we arrived back in the USA at the end of 2007 and got a place of our own. He finally got permanent resident status just last year 2009 and is working on his citizenship now. =)We are still happily married and love each other to death. Oh yeah, I do have to mention that during all of this NEITHER him nor I had any previous gfs or bfs – we are each others FIRST for EVERYTHING and ANYTHING you can think of. That is very special to us both. And each time we kiss we both always feel the same way – we are each others one and only and always have been. So I encourage all to NEVER give up no matter what anyone says. If you feel that it's right and ment to be then go for it. If you know that the guy you want and love and truly and utterly committed to your relationship then do not give up. Long-distance relationships CAN work and ANYTHING is possible.
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Thats such a sweet story! I hope you two stay together forever. 
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Thankies ~^^~ and after all we've been through I am positive that I will have a 50th (or even longer) anniversary with him. Even though we've talked and known each other for years it feels like we are just getting started!
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Jul 13 2010, 11:07 pm - Replied by: Raiden
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i wish i can post here too! so much sweet sweet love storiesss!!  im too shy to talk nah! i get really nervous!  ima live like an old person so lonely mann!!!! cant find right personnn huuuuuu!!!!   help meee 
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HAIIIIIII!!! O///AO
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