ok right so, i used to wear coloured contacts before i was lolita and they were awful. they itched my eyes the coloured area often went over my pupil and they were generally horrible.

i agree, okayy so ive got a suggestion for you there is a little chinese shop i go in and they do these faded pinky lens( they do them in every colour i think) that are quite natural in the center then get brighter on the outside, cause my eyes are genraly big i get that problem too. Im not sure where you could buy them from, you'd have to look at colour contacts sites. As for the inchyness i blink for about 30mins till im okay ahaha and alot of ahhhh this hurts so muchh, but im sure theres loads of stuff for that, i just suffer :(

Did you go to your optometrist and get measured for lenses?
If not you may have the base curve wrong. Too small or too big of a base curve can damage your eye (more likely with too small ones)

If they itched your eyes it is probably not a good idea to try them again. They may have been the wrong size but itching is never a good sign.

I know they were the wrong size because my pupil is really small and it never filled up the clear area

If lenses irritate you, you should speak to your eye doctor. :< And yes, you could have your lenses custom made to fit your eye, but I'm pretty sure that's gonna cost a lot.

No no guys, lenses DO come in different sizes of base curve. You find out your base curve from the eye doctor and then you order the lense with the same base curve. If the place you are ordering from doesn't have the option of picking different base curves send them an email as they should have more then one size.

dont buy lenses unless you need them or they may damage your eyes