I have a lot of great friends. I have a couple "fans" too, these people go out of there way to be like me. They change there art style, clothing style, and attitude so it resembles mine. Most of the time these girls do it to an extent where they can still be themselves (which is what I'm going for, influence but not mind control), but there is this one girl who trys to be just like me. First she started wearing accsesories like hair bows and gloves with her outfits then she went all out with skirts, OTK socks, cardis and everything (not well I might add).
That dosen't bother me so much. However, she always tries to be really close to me which is getting anoying. Sometimes I want alone time (or time with my other friends). Also, she loudly says stuff about me and my lolita-ness that embarasses me (but probably sounded good in her head). When I try to talk to her, she looks like she's going to cry and I have a hard time getting my point out.
HELP MEEEE!!! Does anyone know how to handle this?
Well, first, talk to her. If she looks like she's about to cry, give it to her SOFTLY. 
She might be a delicate one. 
If you can't handle it, she is going to do this FOREVER. 
Well, not forever...but yea. 
If she tears up, just say that you guys can still be friends. 
That doesn't happen to me, because I'm tough in my school.
When someone copies, I'm straight forward. 
But if their bummed out, I cheer them up.
You know? Just tell her to be herself. And she won't stop, I tell you what's next.
jessica