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what should i do?
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Feb 26 2010, 9:18 pm - by SasuChan


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Ok, i thought this might go in here cause its life. i have roommate whose pretty much not listening to my moms rules and saying that we are just making them up. The rules were no guys could spend the night unless they are family or special occassions such as conventions. she broke that...her new boyfriend and friend from highschool have been living here sence new years. ever sence my mom has moved out our utilities bills have doubled. its taking out of my college fund whatever she doesnt pay. I told her that all three of them have to pay 300 or she can pay 900 for all three of them. she says she wont pay more then 625 and that they havnt been living here and its not fair that they are living downstairs in the basement and my sister and i have the top floor. yet 4 people from the basement are useing our 1 shower and theres only two upstairs. so shes saying that people that dont even have rooms shouldnt have to pay equal amount and that its perpopertous and its absurd request. she was suppose to have moved out between feb and march. i know its not over yet but she hasnt put any effort into it. Im going to change the locks and have them enter threw the upstairs, any other ideas on how i should handle this?

 

S.O.S im pushed to my limit.

 

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Feb 26 2010, 10:03 pm - Replied by: SasuChan


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i guess not many people would know what to do in this situtation huh lol
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Feb 26 2010, 10:07 pm - Replied by: Lolita_Tobi


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I think you're being taken advantage of. Is it your house? Technically I mean. I know you're paying rent, but your mother owns it, right?

You can give them a warning before you evict them, or have your mother evict them. You can get police involved if need-be. They are stealing from you and breaking set rules. You need to have this enforced. It may seem like you think you're being mean, but they are te ones being down right terrible and they need to be aware of this.
Feb 26 2010, 10:24 pm - Replied by: SasuChan


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well technicly my mom was renting the house from my grandpas boss. and as soon as my grandpas boss passesaway his daughter is going to sell the house. my mom could have bought it but we missed our chance
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Feb 26 2010, 10:25 pm - Replied by: Lolita_Tobi


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So the house belongs to your aunt? Either way I think that if the rules are being broken, legal punishment should be applied. That isn't right to make you pay out of your pocket for their things.
Feb 26 2010, 10:52 pm - Replied by: Heather


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kick them out
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Feb 26 2010, 10:58 pm - Replied by: SasuChan


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well she thinks that if they dont have a room their not lving there. shes just being a stuck up noodle legged weasel <---(from hana kimi lol)

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Feb 26 2010, 11:03 pm - Replied by: Lolita_Tobi


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So then if they dont have a room, they're not living there, they dont get your food, soap, or toilet paper. If they STEAL your things, you can report them
Feb 26 2010, 11:07 pm - Replied by: SasuChan


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yea true. but theres no real proof to show them living here. we're going to change the locks so they cant get inwith out asking us
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Feb 26 2010, 11:27 pm - Replied by: Lolita_Tobi


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oh, good idea :) Good luck with that sweetie *hugs*
Feb 26 2010, 11:44 pm - Replied by: SasuChan


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thank you :3 thank you for the advice too
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