hye guys.. need your help to solve my problem 

im looking for suggestion...

 

i've been wif my BF for 4 yrs. there is no problem in our relationship b4 this. i love him very much . he so caring, understanding, loving and charming. but lately, he juz got new job. he kept so busy with this job... even still working on weekend & public hldy. im having serious tension coz he always no time for me. call and message me seldom at all... i feel very lonely

 

one day i found my x-BF. we meet again after a loooooong time.. we had a great time having chit chat all our life way back in our old days. he so caring and always make me happy! he always spend time with me when im lonely.. sometime he makes me like him more than a friend.. plus he said he still loves me as well as her girlfriend..

"he still have feeling to me!"..

 

i still love my busy BF but in the same time i feel happy to be with my x-BF. (i dunno if this feeling is luv or juz happy). busy boyfriend tough time in relationship... but i luv this relationship... so, what should i do?

IT'S COMPLICATED!!  

 

 

wow. that is really complicated.

However, I may suggest that you should still be friends with your xbf but do not take it any further because he has a gf.  also, your bf should have a good reason for not contacting you at all, I think you should talk to him heart-to-heart if you get a chance.  Tell him how you really feel.  You should explain to him that you are in a tight situation and you need more attention from him.  I am sure he would understand.

As for your xbf, just be friends... it you will get yourself in so much trouble and in the end, you might lose your friendship with your xbf and you might lose your bf.

I hope that helps.

did you see him recently?!

yeah..
but i still didn't tell him about it..
i think its not a good time to talk
maybe one fine day

 

SIs.!!

 

JuZ fOLLOw yOuR heARt.!!

 

chOose wiSeLy.!!

 

chOose da One whO yoU think wiLL reaLLy mAKeS YoU HaPPY.!!

 

 

yeah sweety..
i like both.. happy wif them
but i just love one .. thats my BF ^^

thATs gOod.!!

 

i wiSh u tO be haPpy siStAH.!!

 

&& jUz undErstAnd uR bf's wOrk.!!

 

dOn't wOrRY he'LL aLso hAve timE for u sOoner.!!

 

mwuahh..mwuahh..

 

i hope ur relationship would lAst 4evEr.!!

 

^_^

thank you sweety
i luv u too ^^
muaxxx

ahm....i knw i'm new hear but...ahm...maybe take a chance, think really what makes you happy....knw trully who's sincere enough to tke cre of ur heart...i had this problem b4 nd i broke up with my bf nd try the other person, but i end up missing my bf... u knw whats best for you....

brax_girl1125 wrote: ahm....i knw i'm new hear but...ahm...maybe take a chance, think really what makes you happy....knw trully who's sincere enough to tke cre of ur heart...i had this problem b4 nd i broke up with my bf nd try the other person, but i end up missing my bf... u knw whats best for you....

yEah....all those trials....just be happy, as i am now...happy contented and in love :em4700:.....i knw i chose the right person and it was my bf....and u will too...